Friday, October 18, 2013

Two is better than one

I was born in 1976 in Addis Ababa.  Soon after I was born, my father, who was a laboratory technician, was forced to go to Asmara, Eretria.  At the time, the area was a war front, and we heard that he passed away in the fighting.  My mother married another man and had a second child; however 8 years later, my father suddenly appeared.  Since my mother was married to another man, they processed the divorced and my father married another woman.   Thus, I grew up moving between the two separate homes. When I completed 12th grade I took the national exam but couldn’t score the passing mark that allowed me to join a University. When my father passed away in 1988, I lost all hope.  I moved to an Arab country and stayed there for three years.  I returned home to take care of my half sisters when I heard that my step mother passed away.
In the year 2004, I got married and gave birth to my first child but depending solely on my husband’s income for survival of the family was not easy.  Hence forced by the hardship, I opened a small shop.  However, since I had no knowledge on business management, I was forced to close it after just a short while. My mother then advised me to join WISE after she heard that my business wasn’t successful.  I became a member of Women in Self Employment (WISE) in the year 2005 and started to save money.  The Organization invited me to take a 12 days training from which I benefited a lot.  It helped me realize that I have been spending a lot of money in lack of the knowledge for proper handling.  Now, I have made saving a habit.  I have realized that we don’t need to go abroad and work in a foreign land to change our lives; we can also work in our own country and still change our lives!  I have also learned about business techniques, how to use time wisely and a lot more.  Had I taken this training before I opened my shop, I would not have been forced to close it.
After successfully finishing the Basic Business Skills training, I took a loan of $28 (500.00 birr)  and bought an oven for bakery and started to sell bread to neighbors and other people in my neighborhood. Then I took an additional loan of 1000 birr from my cooperative and started to sell different house items.  Currently, my saving has reached $278 (5000.00 birr).  I am also a share holder of $278 (5000.00 Birr) in Addis International Bank.  My husband and I have built a house on a land my father-in-law owns.  I put money saved from my husband’s income and my Equb (traditional way of saving money with in a group) to build the house.  So, we  managed to build the house which has a value of  about $1389 (25, 000 birr).  My husband used to think that his income was enough to support us but I proved him wrong by working hard.  Life cannot be changed if the whole family depends only on one person’s income.  Two is better than one.  Now, my husband has accepted the idea of me working.
In the year 2011, WISE organized a New and Viable Business Ideas Competition.  I participated in the competition by introducing candles in different forms and came in 4th place winning $111 (2000 birr).  I now receive orders from customers for candles and I am able to sell them with profit.  In addition to this, I have started a restaurant with my friends.  My future plan is to start a poultry farm. I also want to be able to become a professional photographer now I graduated from Master Films, which is a school of photography.

Friday, October 11, 2013


Feizy: Awakening Young Minds!

“It doesn’t matter who you are, or where you came from. The ability to triumph begins with you always” ~Oprah Winfrey

Born in rural town of Homa-bay, Kenya, Faith, better known as Fei-zy, is one of the initiators of Girls Shift Africa. An organisation that aims at breaking the cycle of poverty and dependency by upLifting, inSpiring and emPowering girls and young women to be who they really are and shine their lights.

I know that my purpose in life is to empower girls and young women to believe in themselves no matter what, regardless of the circumstances. I want to be there as a sister for the girls that I work with in schools and for the other young women, I want to be there to listen and at least offer a piece of advice with the resources I have.

My childhood was not easy, as a young girl no one believed in me, expect for my father who kept showing me love regardless of the circumstances. I was always the quiet, shy girl and most of my friends and family didn’t appreciate me. I lost both my parents at a young age-my mother to an attack during the 2007/8 post-election violence and had to fend for my siblings and I. I believe that the experiences I went through helped shape the person I am today.
In July 2012, I had a calling to change young women’s lives, to make the world a better place for this generation and from the moment I started working with Girl Shift Africa, it’s been a journey I can’t stop talking about. At Girl Shift Africa,we really love focusing on the inside rather than the physical appearance.We do this by working on the emotions of an individual then we work on the outer appearance because as we all know, change starts from within. Basically this is to connect the girls with their inner potential. The meditation is an empowering process about self-discovery and courage.These tools offer solutions to transform people’s lives.

As part of Girl Shift Africa, I have been involved in several activities like helping the elderly, working with special needs children and visiting orphans. I also go into the slums, informally and freely interacting with women and girls, giving health talks, information on how to live a happier life, and motivation on topics such as contraceptives, neighborhood cleanups and blood donation. I hold a certificate in HIV/AIDS management and sexually transmitted diseases from Hope Worldwide. I am also a graduate of the Journey Intensive Seminar, a globally acclaimed method of healing emotional trauma.

In 2012 I was selected as one of the 13 participants to attend the YWLI Feminist Leadership Institute. This great opportunity transformed my life. The experience at the institute was inspiring and exciting.

The Institute equipped me with feminist leadership skills that I need to empower and inspire the girls and women I work with.

I believe that through the institute I have grown in character and capacity. I was deeply transformed to great leadership, authenticity and passion. A light was ignited inside me to believe in the empowerment and support for girls and young women.

I am so proud to call myself a feminist and an activist .Thank you YWLI, for giving me an opportunity to be part of such a transforming space. May you be blessed abundantly.

Young Women's Leadership Institute (YWLI) is one of the four partner institutes of the African Centers of Excellence (ACE) for Women's Leadership program run by the Institute of International Education (IIE) , Ethiopia Office.

For more on IIE , ACE or YWLI please follow the links below.
www.iie.org/
www.iie.org/en/Programs/ACE-for-Womens-Leadership
www.ywli.org 

Friday, October 4, 2013


A Gender Activist Inspired by the AWLI

It has been said that the wise men came from the East but there must have been some women too!! Today we are proud to share the leadership journey of one wise woman from the East of Ghana; Joyce OpokuBoateng a Lawyer and a native of Kwahu Danteng who profoundly speaks of the AWLI experience;a training she recommends for every young woman…I hope that her story inspires you too!

The inner attributes of a woman of strength

I believe in the innate strength of women to positively transform the world.  Women need to discover themselves, appreciate their leadership potential, and take charge in a more structured manner.  Women need to form a critical mass to get things moving.  It is important to document the stories of women to serve as a springboard for building the critical mass.

Who is Joyce OpokuBoateng?

I started my basic education at Danteng Methodist Primary and continued at the Morning Star School, Cantonments, and Accra, where I sat for the Common Entrance examination. I attended Aburi Girls Secondary, for both “O” and “A” Levels – 1979-1986 before proceeding to the University of Ghana where I graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree in Law and Sociology in (1990)
After attending the Ghana Law School I was called to the Ghana Bar as Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Ghana in March 1994’; I Studied Law relating to Banking Services at the Guildhall University, London (ACIB). I am also qualified as Legal Secretary – London. I am a member of various associations including Federation of International Women Lawyers – FIDA
Currently the Founder/CEO – The NIMBUS Foundation www.nimbusfoundation.organd Founder/CEO – Cradle FC (Football), I worked as a Legal Counsel with PresteaSankofa Gold Ltd and Legal officer in the Ministry for Women and Children’s Affairs. I am also a Partner with Opoku-Boateng& Association, Agona Law Chambers, Accra.
I have held various honoraries as Honorable Colonel of the Order of the Kentucky Colonel, USA (2007), SupremoViajante del Sudoeste by the El Paso County Council, USA (2007) andrepresented the Honorable Minister for Women and Children’s Affairs at ECOWAS, Abuja and the Organization of American States, Washington, USA, Senegal, Cameroun, Benin (2003-2006).  I am proud to be one of the alumni of the prestigious African Women Leadership Institute (2002), an initiative of Akina Mama wa Afrika.

My  AWLI story

The training at AWLI gave me an insight into the philosophy of gender equality, and gender as a social and development construct. I had a better understanding of the concepts of gender mainstreaming and it enabled me to articulate my views on gender in a more meaningful way.   I can proudly call myself a gender activist thanks to the training I had at the AWLI
At AWLI I was able to distinguish between work, activism and personal care.  We were taken through relaxation techniques in addition to the theories and practice of gender advocacy. Networking was an area of gender work that was emphasized at the AWLI.Determined to transform women’s lives I have not stopped at this but have moved on and now set up an NGO called The NIMBUS Foundationwww.nimbusfoundation.org; an organization that is aimed at promoting the rights of women and children through advocacy and training among others.l continue to draw upon the network of friends that I have made throughout my human rights workAnd have learnt to understand the peculiar challenges that women face both as activists and as members of the community.  Empathy should be a watchword in our work as advocates.
One cannot change the mindset of others when one does not have a thorough appreciation of the issues and concepts that you are advocating on.  It is important to have a good understanding of gender as a discipline, a tool for social change and a development construct.  I would recommend that all young women who wish to be advocates undergo the training that AWLI offered me in 2002. It has shaped my thinking and enriched my language as a gender advocate.

Speaking of a vibrant and sustained women’s movement

Since Rome was not built in a day, it is important that the debate on gender equality continue unabated.  It has to be rejuvenated and new faces must join the movement for its sustainability.  This means that training of young people of both sexes must continue.  Training must take account of emerging issues, including political and economic debates while looking at those from the gender lens.
In 2012 I contested for a parliamentary seat in one of the biggest constituencies in the country (Nkawkaw in the Eastern Region of Ghana). My experience is that the men are not prepared to give in to women’s participation and went all out to fight for the seat, in spite of the Manifesto promises.  Young women who wish to contest for political leadership should understand that seats are not won on a silver platter.  They need to work two times harder than their male counterparts.  What I learnt is that although I did not win the seat, I have made significant inroads into the national politics and hope to build on the gains made.

If you must remember me…

I want to be remembered as a woman who was not daunted by social circumstances but tried to brighten every corner that I found myself.  The ups and downs will come, they are part of life. When I am down I look at the bright side and quickly rise up and fly with the eagles.  I like this quotation by Shakespeare very much:
“ ’Tis in ourselves that we are thus or thus. Our bodies are our garden, to which our wills are gardeners: so that if we will plant nettles, or sow lettuce, set hyssop ands up tine, supply it with one gender of herbs, or distract it with many, either to have it sterile with idleness, or manured with industry, why, the power and corrigible authority of this lies in our wills”

For more information, please visit the website for my organization the NIMBUS Foundation on:  www.nimbusfoundation.org


AKina Mama wa Afrika (AMwA) is one of the four partner institutes of the African Centers of Excellence (ACE) for Women's Leadership program run by the Institute of International Education (IIE) , Ethiopia Office.

For more on IIE , ACE or AMwA please follow the links below.

www.iie.org/
www.iie.org/en/Programs/ACE-for-Womens-Leadership